IT'S OK TO SAY, NO!! ;-)

                                              


It's OK to, SAY NO!! You have a right to make "boundaries" and say NO to things you really don't want to do....I.e.: Unreasonable requests/demands from an employer, Family member or Friend! You don't have to/NEED to feel guilty....Your happiness, wants and needs are just as important as other people's and if "you" continue to forget that, your emotional AND physical health WILL suffer. 


You may "tick off" the employer, and I know how scarce jobs are these days, however....I would rather risk my job and stand up for my rights, than to continue working for someone who feels that your paycheck is a "weapon" for unjust control! Family....You may not be able to "divorce" them (LOL) but, you CAN refuse to allow them to guilt you into doing things THEIR way, and also making you angry in the process....Calmly say, "NO....you have your way and I have mine". SUBJECT DROPPED! LOL Friends....A TRUE Friend, will never insist on you doing something that they know/you have stated, will make you uncomfortable/stressed/etc....NO, MEANS NO....Nuff said! ;-)