I have done this to MYSELF, more times than I can count....I tell others, "Don't worry about what people think", and yet that is something that is very hard for most of us to do.
It's what YOU
know, about YOU and your story; What YOU know happened....the WHOLE story, and
not just the “factual bits”, that your “judges and juries”, want to throw at
you now, and for some, the rest of your lives!
I’ll try again….As much for myself, as for you….You MUST come to an understanding, that sometimes things happen; BAD THINGS, that change a person, and that cause them to react, and behave in such a way that is not who they truly are, at their core. Remember this when people are judging you for your mistakes…past or present.
“Cause and Effect”….Everything is NOT an excuse for “wrong” behavior, however, there are TIMES when mitigating circumstances, cause a person’s mind to “take over”, and do whatever it takes, to protect itself emotionally….
“CAUSE AND EFFECT”….Not excuses…. “CAUSE AND EFFECT”!!!!!
What YOU think of yourself, is what ultimately what will define you!!! So try to let those thoughts, be POSITIVE as much as possible. If you want to be loved, in spite of your flaws, then give YOURSELF that gift. Forgive yourself, and then LEARN from your mistakes, and if the haters gonna keep on hatin’, then….LET ‘EM!!! There are some people who are going to look down on you, no matter how much you may change your life, for the better. The one’s that know your heart, are the only ones who should matter….Let the joyful sounds and feelings, that these people bring to your life, drown out the noise, of those who choose to keep on hating, and thinking they are better than you. Life is short….Go out there, hold your head high and live it the best you can, “Find what gives you Joy….AND GO THERE”!!!! <3 ~Suzan C. Ward, CRC, CCH~ Copyright © 2018 [Suzan C. Ward, CRC, CCH]. All Rights Reserved.
Read more on this subject, by clicking the link below, by blogger Callie Byrnes....
I’ll try again….As much for myself, as for you….You MUST come to an understanding, that sometimes things happen; BAD THINGS, that change a person, and that cause them to react, and behave in such a way that is not who they truly are, at their core. Remember this when people are judging you for your mistakes…past or present.
“Cause and Effect”….Everything is NOT an excuse for “wrong” behavior, however, there are TIMES when mitigating circumstances, cause a person’s mind to “take over”, and do whatever it takes, to protect itself emotionally….
“CAUSE AND EFFECT”….Not excuses…. “CAUSE AND EFFECT”!!!!!
What YOU think of yourself, is what ultimately what will define you!!! So try to let those thoughts, be POSITIVE as much as possible. If you want to be loved, in spite of your flaws, then give YOURSELF that gift. Forgive yourself, and then LEARN from your mistakes, and if the haters gonna keep on hatin’, then….LET ‘EM!!! There are some people who are going to look down on you, no matter how much you may change your life, for the better. The one’s that know your heart, are the only ones who should matter….Let the joyful sounds and feelings, that these people bring to your life, drown out the noise, of those who choose to keep on hating, and thinking they are better than you. Life is short….Go out there, hold your head high and live it the best you can, “Find what gives you Joy….AND GO THERE”!!!! <3 ~Suzan C. Ward, CRC, CCH~ Copyright © 2018 [Suzan C. Ward, CRC, CCH]. All Rights Reserved.
Read more on this subject, by clicking the link below, by blogger Callie Byrnes....
Read This If You’ve Been Judged By People Who Don’t Know The Whole Story
By Callie Byrnes,
https://thoughtcatalog.com/callie-byrnes/2018/06/read-this-if-youve-been-judged-by-people-who-dont-know-the-whole-story/
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